Sam

Some people tell us that Sam doesn't "look" like he has autism. I'm not really sure what that means but, he does. The thing about autism is that every child who is diagnosed is different just like any kid. They have some common core issues but, exactly how these issues affect them and how they deal with them is unique to each child. Sometimes you don't know what might bother them you just have to "punt" as we always say. Here are some facts about Sam that might seem in contrast to what you may have heard about kids with autism.

*He's smart and does well in school. He has accommodations, one is because his handwriting is not at grade level and probably won't ever be good (maybe he could be a doctor!) but, put that kid in front of a computer and just watch him go! His school surprised us and had a computer issued to Sam and put in his classroom, just for him!

*He has friends. There are quite a few kids in his grade that go the extra mile for him and include him in things. They know him pretty well by now and just know when to be there for him. He's even starting to join in by himself...that is awesome!

*He LOVES to give hugs! In fact we have to remind everyone at school to try to give him a high five instead...you just can't go around hugging everyone you meet. My heart breaks whenever I hear from another autism Mom that she's never gotten a hug...we are VERY blessed.

*He can read your facial expressions...trust me on this one. He can definitely tell when I'm not happy and when I smile at him...he smiles back. He makes eye contact but, just not as much.

*He tells us he loves us every day and it still brings tears to my eyes.

Sam loves to climb trees, ride his bike, play with his dog and bug his sister. He likes hot sauce on his food, playing video games, and thinks the Jonas Brothers are cool. Maybe you know a kid like that?

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